But when it comes to marriage, most men don’t marry for those two reasons. They marry for stability.
Here is what that means:
A man might love you but not marry you. He might be in a physical relationship with you for years without tying the knot. But the moment he meets a woman who brings stability to his life, he marries her.
By stability, I mean peace of mind. I have heard men say, “I love this woman, but I can’t spend my whole life with her.”
When men think about marriage, they don’t focus on things like wedding dresses or bridesmaids, the way many women do. Instead, they think, “Can this woman build a home with me? Can she take care of me and my children? Will she bring me peace and comfort?”
Men want peace. They don’t like women who cause them stress. That is why a man might stay with one woman for years but marry another after knowing her for only a short time.
For men, it isn’t just about sex or love. It is about respect, because respect is what leads to stability.
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