Girls’ questions about sex, my answers

Greetings from Grace Milani to all the readers of Lust Story. Till now, I have received a lot of mails for all the stories and thoughts that I have shared with you all and I am happy that I have received appreciation from the readers.

I am from Florida, United States and I feel happy to share my heart’s feelings and thoughts with all of you. At this place, I have also found some good friends who often talk to me and discuss ideas and I have also had beautiful meetings with some of them. Well, now let’s talk about the real issue.

In many mails received recently, some female readers informed me about their problems and after knowing their problems, I also felt that this is a problem related to the problem of all women nowadays, so why not share suggestions with everyone together so that all other women can also solve their problems.

Now I will tell you further in the question-answer style that which questions I received and how, in my opinion, those problems can be solved.

1. A female friend Ava asked: These days I am very worried about the fact that I have satisfied my vagina many times by fingering and using some unnatural things. But now I am going to get married, so will my husband come to know on the wedding night that my vagina has been penetrated? If there is no blood coming out of my vagina, will my husband look at me with suspicion? And is it right to masturbate?

Answer: Ava, to be honest, all this is nothing but a web of illusion. There is a membrane in the vagina which sometimes gets damaged while playing sports or riding a bicycle or jumping around. That is why today’s youth pay less attention to the fact that the vagina of his future wife should be intact. One thing is also true that today’s youth gets so excited for sex or while having sex that he does not even try to think about all this.

Now your second question is related to masturbation – as far as masturbation is concerned, there is absolutely no harm in enjoying this act. Nor will this be called a dirty thing. But you should always keep in mind that excess of everything is bad. You can masturbate without worrying but not regularly.

Now I would like to say about your third problem that if you have enjoyed sex to a great extent and your vagina has opened completely then you should stop masturbating. Also, it would be better if you do not try to enjoy in any unnatural way. If you give complete rest to your vagina for a month and do not tamper with it then it will start shrinking again. As a result of which it will start getting tight.

If you want to save yourself from the suspicion of your husband then on the day of Suhaagraat you can also pretend to have pain during sex, whether you are feeling less pain or not at all. This will make your husband believe that you have not tampered with your vagina. I also want to say that men are also not bathed in milk. Nowadays it has become a common thing to do all this before marriage. So don’t worry too much and enjoy your life.

2. My other friend camila has asked: I am just 19 years old and my boyfriend always asks me to have sex but he is a novice in sex and I think I should have my first sex with a mature person. If you can spare some time, I would like to meet you. But I am scared of the thought of meeting you or any stranger and if I do so, there is a possibility of getting infected. Am I right in thinking this or are these notions in my mind wrong? Please reply.

Answer: Camila you are not very young but not very old either. Why do you think so much about sex at this age? It is right to have sex according to the time. I know that having sex at this age is not wrong but it is also very important to have safe sex. If your boyfriend is insisting on having sex with you then leave him at that very moment because he does not love you but your body and sex. If it was not so then he would not have forced you to have sex. Still if you think that he is inept in this matter then you are also inept.

It is important to have knowledge to have sex. Especially in that situation when it comes to having sex for the first time. If a girl has never had sex how will she know how to insert the penis in the vagina so that the pain in the vagina is minimal or she does not feel any discomfort. Before sex foreplay and oral activities are more important and it is very important to have knowledge about it.

Nowadays unnatural sex is increasing a lot so it is very important to avoid it. Now when it comes to having sex with me, Suhaani first you will have to become a good friend of mine because mutual understanding and consent is very important in sex and without friendship or love there is no pleasure in sex. It is true that nowadays safe sex is very important and hence it is not wise to have sex with everyone. A disease can put your life at risk forever, so take steps after thinking carefully.

3. Luna’s question: grace, it has been two years since I got married but I have never been satisfied with sex till date. My husband is never able to discharge me after he ejaculates and after he discharges himself he turns his face and goes to sleep and I keep on writhing like a fish the whole night and in such irritation I don’t even feel like fingering my vagina. Many times I think of finding a way to satisfy my sex outside, many times I feel like it but the fear of defamation doesn’t let me take this step. My desire for sex is also very strong, please can you help me in some way? Waiting for your reply!

Answer: luna, this problem has become a part of every housewife’s life because many men get so tired due to their daily activities and efforts to earn money to run the house that they just keep sex to themselves and their only work is to discharge themselves.

You should not be disappointed, first of all you should talk to your husband and ask him about his problem and tell him about your problem and your craving for sex. Having sex outside is not a solution. It is true that on such a path, infamy will set in anytime. Safe sex is very rare now but still if you do not find any solution, then after that you can definitely have sex with a personal friend of yours provided that he is trustworthy.

I believe that cheating happens when your husband keeps you satisfied in sex and also loves you very much, despite that you keep having sex outside. I can understand that you also have desires and you will not be able to suppress your desires for a long time.

Therefore, first of all you should try to make your husband aware of sex and inform him about your problems and if even then he does not understand or he is only concerned about his own satisfaction then you can get your vagina satisfied at a trusted friend’s place without any hesitation. By the way, nowadays you can also satisfy your vagina by ordering a dildo or vibrator online on the internet. There is no defamation in this and there will be no worries of any kind and then there is no question of cheating.

4.This question is by aspen: I saw a porn video in which two girls were having sex with a boy. Is this kind of sex appropriate? Can one man satisfy two women at the same time? Or is it all a lie shown in the video? Ever since I saw this video, my friend and I have been harboring a desire to have this kind of sex. Although both of us have boyfriends, none of us wants to share our partners in this way. If we both have sex with someone else at the same time, will he be able to satisfy our pussies at the same time?

Answer: Aspen, the people who work in porn videos are professional artists. In this kind of porn content, most of the men are given sex pills to work so that their penis can penetrate the vagina for a long time. But such medicines can be very harmful, whose effect can sometimes be the opposite.

You can just enjoy watching such videos but all the scenes shown in them are imaginary and have very little connection with real life. Yes, but it is also true that a man can easily have sex with two women at the same time but it is not necessary that he can satisfy both of them at the same time. You should keep in mind that sexual safety is very important in group sex.

I have had sex with my girlfriend and her friend on the same bed at the same time and I have mentioned about it in my first story
Pehla Anandmayi Ahsaas
. I enjoyed it a lot and when I imagine that pleasure, many times I felt that I wish I get a chance to do the same thing once again.

5. Sophia’s question: Grace, can penises be big or small? Is a small penis not useful for sex? My husband’s penis is smaller than 5 inches and when I watch videos, seeing big penises, my mind also thinks that I wish I also get a big penis and nowadays I have started hating my husband’s small penis and I don’t even feel like he fucks my pussy. I hope you are understanding my problem or my curiosity. Can I know how big your penis is? Because whatever story or information I read about you, I was just curious to ask you.

Answer: Sophia, porn sites have increased the wrong concept in the mind, so remove this wrong concept from the mind that a small penis is not useful. If you have had sex with a big penis, then definitely a small penis will not be able to give you pleasure, but if your husband is giving you sex with a small penis every day, then be happy with that. It is not necessary that a big penis always gives pleasure. A 2-inch penis is also capable of giving satisfaction and such a small penis can also produce a child. So do not dream of a big penis. By the way, the biggest penis is 17 inches, which makes people very unhappy with such a big penis. It is true that many girls try to have sex with him or are curious, but he feels uncomfortable in having sex.

Let me tell you one more thing that a penis larger than 6 inches can never go completely inside the vagina. If you have seen the video, then look carefully, even a big penis goes inside only partially and some part of it remains outside. The depth of the vagina is limited in all women. The penis can be small or big, but the depth of the vagina is not small or big. So do not imagine a big penis. Even a small penis can give you a lot of pleasure, provided there is coordination between you and your husband.

Now when it comes to my penis, if you have read my entire story, then I have mentioned the size of my penis in it, but still I tell you that my penis is 6 inches. Remove this notion from your mind. Often small penises are better than big penises. The more oral, foreplay there is in sex, the more pleasure you will get. So, increase the willpower to get pleasure in whatever you have and enjoy sex. People from Nigeria, Africa, West Indies have big penises but the girls there are not satisfied in having sex with them. Do read their articles on Google sometime, you will find out the truth yourself.

So my dear friends, apart from the questions I have shared with you here, there are many more questions whose answers have been sent to them through mail and some people’s questions were similar to these, so they will get their answers in these questions.

In the next story, I will tell you how I met a girl I met on Antarvasna and how much I enjoyed what happened between us, I will definitely share her story, till then thanks.

Before leaving, I would like to say that if you also have any kind of problem or want to ask any kind of question, then feel free to mail me. Do tell me how you liked the answers given by me. Waiting for your mails, your friend

grace milani